If you currently don’t have the courage then let’s use what you do have, fears. What do you fear if you decided to NOT take on what you really want? Are you willing to live with that?
—The Angry Therapist
Feast your hearts & ears;
A wonderfully honest and sincere collection of men’s thoughts on love.
“Love is not a one-way thing. It’s not right for one side if it’s not right for both sides…perhaps the greatest act of love is leaving someone who really loves you.”
I watched a clip with this mans words.
When it ended, I stared at the screen for a few seconds before bursting into tears and I sobbed. His words shook me, they got a part of me that I had buried so deep, I’d forgotten.
His words rang with such sincerity and truth, it made me feel at peace with someone’s choice to leave a past relationship.
I can now see that his act to end the relationship was the ultimate gift of love to me. I feel blessed and warm. I feel like I’m exactly where I’m meant to be.
The world is full of people who are waiting for someone to come along and motivate them to be the kind of people they wish they could be. These people are waiting for a bus on a street where no buses pass.
—Brian Tracy (via aos010510)
(via theangrytherapist)
The goal is to get here. :)
A new twist on regrets:
if we have goals and dreams and we want to do our best, and if we love people and we don’t want to hurt them or lose them, we should feel pain when things go wrong. the point isn’t to live without any regrets, the point is to not hate ourselves for having them … we need to learn to love the…
(Source: littlelaur)
Being brave means to act despite fear, not due to lack of.
(via inspiredbythisfeeling)
Let It Go.
People seem to say these words so easily. But the trouble with these 3 little words is that they don’t flow into action as smoothly as it glides out of their mouth. ‘Letting go’ isn’t easy. It isn’t simple or instantaneous. It’s positive effects don’t follow straight away. Letting go is emotionally exhausting, a constant struggle between wanting to wallow and sink in the nostalgia, memories and the conscious decision to fight that urge and instead acknowledge the past for what it was and is - the past - and move on and live in the now! You don’t know where the journey stops. It might be a week, a month, before the next memory of the past come up, and when it does, you have to remember to let the thought past and keep living. It’s a long process, but eventually, the thoughts won’t resurface anymore. You just have to keep fighting.
Time heals, it’s true. You just have to believe and give yourself the chance.
