Be your own friend
My recent unhappiness stems from my inability to cope with the stresses of personal responsibilities and fears of disappointment. At it’s worst, it cripples me and my ability to think all day. I over sleep, I run away from my issues and it snow balls into a terrible cycle of binge eating in bed watching tv series and movies.. I’ll feel fat and bloated and even more horrible.....
Acts of Love
There are the little things in life we get so used to we don’t even notice. Having people in your life who you can go to in moments of bliss, anxiousness, loneliness, who’s friendship is a safe haven because they will listen without judgement and make you feel heard, less alone, and above all accepted for who you are. The people who are simply there for us to pick up our phone calls,...
Because listening to Sigur Ros never hurt anyone....
Never loose Love to fear. It will drive you crazy with regret and powerlessness. Because, second chances rarely exist.
A forgettable moment may be another person’s most cherished memory.
A simple act of kindness can become a sacred memory. It’s the little things in life.
I caved into my fear. My fear of the unknown, of our connectedness, of the possibility of how much I might of loved you. Fear of getting hurt. But now, I sit here alone, realising that my biggest fear should of being loosing you. Even though my heart aches from missing your presence in my life, I like to think that maybe you were apart of my life for the moments that you were, to teach me to...
Scars have the strange power to remind us that our past is real.– Cormac McCarthy, All the Pretty Horses (via psychotherapy)
Mumma told me about days like these,
I feel like the world is against me right now. I’m surrounded by so much negative energy, attacking me from all angles and coming from within. I hope the supply isn’t endless and runs out soon, because I’m getting tired of fighting. The past couple of days have just being such a struggle and fight, I’m loosing myself in it all. Its frustrating and I’m finding...
I wish my heart was at my feet, furthest from my brain as possible.
Comparison is the thief of happiness.– (via theangrytherapist)
For the first time in a long time, I remembered the feeling of being in love. I couldn’t stop picturing you in my mind as my heart filled with love & warmth. But then I thought about us, together, and I felt completely alone and empty. It completely froze me. And it made me realise, reminded me that we’re not right together and more than anything, I probably just missed the the...
It’s inevitable to make mistakes. But if you don’t learn from your dumbass mistakes, then you’re just a dumbass.
Don't Get over it! →
theangrytherapist: How many times have people told you, “you just gotta get over it”? Whether you are recovering from a relationship or an event, telling yourself to “get over” something isn’t going to help. It just puts more pressure on you and allows you to internalize. You slap yourself with a giant should. You…
If you currently don’t have the courage then let’s use what you do have, fears. ...– The Angry Therapist
Feast your hearts & ears; →
A wonderfully honest and sincere collection of men’s thoughts on love.
"Love is not a one-way thing. It's not right for...
I watched a clip with this mans words. When it ended, I stared at the screen for a few seconds before bursting into tears and I sobbed. His words shook me, they got a part of me that I had buried so deep, I’d forgotten. His words rang with such sincerity and truth, it made me feel at peace with someone’s choice to leave a past relationship. I can now see that his act to end the...
The world is full of people who are waiting for someone to come along and...– Brian Tracy (via aos010510)
A new twist on regrets: →
texturism: if we have goals and dreams and we want to do our best, and if we love people and we don’t want to hurt them or lose them, we should feel pain when things go wrong. the point isn’t to live without any regrets, the point is to not hate ourselves for having them … we need to learn to love the…
Let It Go.
People seem to say these words so easily. But the trouble with these 3 little words is that they don’t flow into action as smoothly as it glides out of their mouth. ‘Letting go’ isn’t easy. It isn’t simple or instantaneous. It’s positive effects don’t follow straight away. Letting go is emotionally exhausting, a constant struggle between wanting to wallow...
This is a breakthrough. The biggest mistake you can make now is to believe that...– Awake, S01E12
God is ultimately mans greatest excuse to failure. It gives belief to a greater, omniscient being, of omnipotent power and control , especially that of fate and so is just a release of stress to humanity. Because if people faced the fact that their lives and potential at happiness and all things great were in the ‘fate’ of their own hands, then it’d generate an immense amount of...
Have a heart that never hardens, a temper that never tires, and a touch that...– Charles Dickens
It saddens me that I no longer believe in grand romantic gestures. It’s been put aside, along with fairy god mothers and flying carpets. Such things just don’t happen upon my life. I want someone brave to make me believe again.
I’m in love with the frantic chaos of the limitless universe.– Timothy “Speed” Levitch
The only constant guaranteed in life is change. The seasons will change, friends will come and go, your perspective will change, people will change, YOU will change.
Do you know the feeling? When you’re on a roller coaster and you’re coming down a slope, and you can feel the will of the wheels giving way under your feet, and the g force hit you and it feels like your hands have turned to jelly but they’re holding on, frozen. And your heart is overwhelmed by anxiousness. That moment of hopelessness and invigoration. That’s what my...
As I was doing my makeup, I caught myself dead in the eye and I felt a little burst of warmth from inside my chest. The moment was profound but lasted less than half a minute. And yet, I can’t help continuing to try and relive that moment in my memory. In such a typical, mundane routine, I had this sudden wash of a very foreign feeling - I felt proud. I had so much love for the person I...
The sound of whimsical young love.
There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall...– Elizabeth Gilbert
I hope to use this space to exercise my vulnerability muscle. A place where I can be completely truthful and honest about what ever is on my mind, be allowed to express myself with out pretence or ego. I want to be heard but not at the price of being fake to attract followers. I’d rather be thought of as boring and weird than be anything but genuine and true. Despite this being anonymous...
This Is The Goal.
If you learn to love and appreciate the vulnerability, then you’ll of built yourself a world filled with endless growth and opportunity.